opinions ttg couple [or rather, against it] : a compilation

No specific Qs asked, just some random opinions tentang couple. No intro needed kot.

Opinion 1: Kenapa saya xnak couple? It’s pure logic. Call me egoistic tp one of my few demands is that I want to be the 1^st one for my life partner. Meaning die xboleh ade anyone before me. Well, who doesn’t kan? Cant bear thinking that someone else pernah dgr all those sweet talks dari die sebelum saya. Cant bear thinking die dah pnah dating dgn orang laen sebelum saya. Okay la…tolerate2 kalau pnah ade sorang due cinta monyet tu xkesah la. Tapi kalau yg jenis every sem sorang, kalau add up previous gf/bf xcukup jari tgn jari kaki, kirim salam je la. Saya nak record bersih for a life partner. So kalau saya nak orang macam tu, saya pun kene jd org macam tu jugak la kan, baru fair for both of us. Jadi, saya xnak la couple sekarang. Simple.

Opinion 2: Kadang2 xpaham certain people. Diorang couple, tp xdeclare – as if that somehow means it’s not wrong. They wish. Kalau dah 24.7 sms, special occasion sikit bagi hadiah, asyik2 plan pakai baju kaler same pegi klas, lagi nak deny. Then bile orang tanye, kluar la ayat lame : “kitorang mane ade ape2, kawan je la.” Bagus la keep it under the surface, xtunjuk2 like some people, tapi that doesn’t mean it’s a right thing jugak. By not declaring, seolah2 diorg cube nak yakinkan diri yang diorg xbuat salah. Sume pun dari niat : dan diorang boleh ikrar ke yang xde sikit pun niat towards that dlm hati. Declare atau x, same je, bukan tetap salah ke...?

Opinion 3 : Saya bukan against couple, tapi for our young age : it’s too early! Sebab saya utk tolak konsep couple ni ialah saya xtau sama ada orang itu akan jd teman hidup saya ke tak. Xkan asyik nak cubajaya. Kita xdapat bayang hidup kita 1year akan datang, apetah lagi 5, 10 tahun akan datang kan? Kalau saya xnak fikir lagi tentang building a family, buat ape nak cari awal2 kan? Memang la some people yg couple cakap diorg serious, couple ni nak bawak to long-term agreement i.e kawen tp kenape diorg cakap yakin sgt as if diorg tau what their life would be 5years from now. Ape jd esok pn xtau, nak ckp byk. Lain la kalau mmg dah ready nak meminang esok. Tu pun kalau ready nak accept the huge responsibility. Ingat bende simple ke.

Opinion 4: Kite ni slalu lupe syaitan ade kat mane2 – always ready utk hasut ke arah yg xbaik nih. Kalau ckp love at 1^st sight : sure ke bkn syaitan yg bisik2 cakap awak suke. Kalau ckp that person’s the one, itu la jodoh saye : sure ke bkn syaitan yg bagi idea tu? Kalau ckp byk sgt kebetulan, banyak sgt terpandang serentak, sure ke that’s the real truth atau hati je yang perasan. Get real la. Petunjuk dari Allah la paling betul kan. Lagipun, kalau betul la org tu jodoh awak, xreti tunggu ke. Xyah la couple skrg kot.

These are purely opinion. Open for rejection. But some are rather logical kan..

Compiled and rewritten by bloggerette in own words to be more blog-friendly. ^.^