who gets the last laugh?

whether we realise it or not, we often blame people too quickly.
after learning of only one part of a story, we jump to conclusions.
: this person's to blame.
do we ever stop and listen to the whole story first?
or try and find the other side to the story.
when making decisions on who's fault is it...do we ever see things through the 'blamed' person's eyes?
is that person really to blame?
if we are not even aware of the real situation, who are we to suddenly act as if we know what's going on?
and blame others for not doing anything?
perhaps they had done something - the right thing - beforehand, but we never know of that.
perhaps things are not so easy for them to do anything, but we never understand.
and in the end, it's always them who's on the losing ground.
because we never bothered to know the real story.
because we only see the bad in people.
because we are always quick to blame others.
because we just need someone to carry the blame.

little do we realise, by blaming each other, the real guilty party gets the last laugh.