ubah nasib?

“Allah will not change the fate of a people unless they change what is in themselves”
(Al Quran, 13:10)

"saya nak ubah nasib keluarga". that's a common phrase (esp in malay movies kot). tapi kan..ubah nasib..mesti kite slalu pikir in terms of nak escape from proverty.
kalau a person dtg dari keluarga yang x berada, he'll work hard utk blaja etc...
so that he'll get a better job than of his father's and the family'll be better off. in terms of money.
so kalau a person dari an already wealthy - prominent perhaps - family, xyah la die nak ubah nasib kan...(?) just nak retain the family pny status.
tapi tu je ke skop "nasib" yang kite nampak...?
kalau a person dtg dari family yg berada, tapi in terms of practising islam x brape nak kaya..
itu still considered "nasib" yang dah ok, x payah nak ubah ke?

kadang2 bila among kita2, yang xnampak dedicated sgt practise islam...

"die mmg datang dari family yang x alim sgt."
compare :
"die datang dari family yang miskin, tp die really work hard utk ubah nasib family."
kenapa kalau in terms of working for money, bagus amat.tapi kalau in terms of islam, terime je la ketetapan macam tu. mana boleh pertikai ketentuan Allah ek...(?)

"my mum pun x pakai tudung, xkan i nak pakai pulak, nanti die kecik hati"
compare :
"my father kerja clerk je. tapi xsemestinya i must follow. kite mesti usaha jadi lebih baik than our parents. itu untuk balas jasa diorg jugak."
kalau pasal career mesti better than parents.kalau religion jgn interfere dgn tradition.
bawak family toward a stronger islamic faith bukan balas jasa...(?)

kite2 ni x rasa perlu ke ubah nasib keluarga dari segi tu?
kalau family kite x solat...
sampai bile2 pun kite nak family kite x solat?
kalau our sister tak bertudung...
sampai bile2 pun kite nak tgk die macam tu?
kalau family kite x ada duit, x ada nama...kite nak ubah nasib...
tapi kalau family kite x ada strong hold to islam...kenapa kite x kesah pulak...?
kenapa macam tu pulak eh......